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Monday, October 13, 2008

thats like random...seriously

By Angela Saurine

October 13, 2008 01:00am

NEXT time you're at the pub and hear a glass smash, try to resist the urge to call out "taxi!"

If you want to catch up with a work contact, suggest something other than "let's do lunch".

And whatever you do, don't phone someone to "touch base".

That's the verdict of fed-up Australians, who have voted on the most overused and hated phrases in a nationwide survey.

Social researcher Mark McCrindle found politicians, workmates and teenagers the worst cliche offenders.

When it came to political speak, the saying, "I'm not ruling anything out" was the most despised.

But overall, the phrase "at the end of the day" was the most irritating in the English language.

In social cliches, saying a person is hot and making a sizzling noise was also a big no-no.

But people appreciate it when you say "bless you" when someone sneezes or offer to "touch wood" on their behalf.

Join the survey: Share your most hated cliches

"Cliches are increasingly part of our society," Mr McCrindle said.

"They bring a familiarity to conversations and they sometimes can fill in those awkward silences and keep things flowing. (But) they do tend to have a use-by date."

Stephanie Rogers, 16, often annoys her mother Gabriela with typical Gen Y phrases. "She says 'whatever' with the whole rolling of the eyes," Mrs Rogers said. Stephanie also admitted to saying the word "like" too much.


i went looking for the full list but couldnt find it, disapointed but ill thought ill add the ones i use often and the ones i hate.

i use : random, too funny, seriously, whats that about?, whatever

let me know about other i use guys...

ones i cant stand: my bad, sick, bling


dont leave your garden gnome out

i was reading in the paper today and artical about the most stolen goods in Sydney according to suburb. it stated that thieves steal in their own area and what is in demand so it would be pointless to steal a drive across Sydney to steal a lawn mower and try and flogged it off to people who live in flats in the inner city. our area is true we always hear about stolen lawn mowers, whipper snippers, hoses, gnomes, and letter boxes
here is the full list
ASHFIELD
1. Cash/document
2. Tool
3. Personal item
4. Bicycle
5. Credit card

AUBURN
1. Cash/document
2. Jewellery - ring
3. Jewellery
4. Personal item
5. Communications equipment

BANKSTOWN
1. Drug
2. Jewellery
3. Cash/document
4. Jewellery - ring
5. Gardening equipment and material

BAULKHAM HILLS
1. Cash/document
2. Hardware/building/decorating
3. Gardening equipment and material
4. Jewellery - ring
5. Communications Equipment

BLACKTOWN
1. Cash/document
2. Gardening equipment and material
3. Hardware/building/decorating
4. Bicycle
5. Communications equipment

BLUE MOUNTAINS
1. Home entertainment equipment
2. Jewellery - ring
3. Cash/document
4. Gardening equipment and material
5. Hardware/building/decorating

BOTANY BAY
1. Gardening equipment and material
2. Clothing
3. Cash/document
4. Hardware/building/decorating
5. Communications equipment

BURWOOD
1. Cash/document
2. Gardening equipment and material
3. Clothing
4. Jewellery
5 Jewellery - ring

CAMDEN
1. Tool
2. Gardening equipment and material
3. Cash/document
4. Jewellery - ring
5. Hardware/building.decorating

CAMPBELLTOWN
1. Cash/document
2. Gardening equipment and material
3. Jewellery - ring
4. Hardware/building/decorating
5. Bicycle

CANADA BAY:
1. Cash/document
2. Jewellery
3. Personal item
4. Bicycle
5. Credit card

CANTERBURY
1. Cash/document
2. Personal item
3. Drug
4. Gardening equipment and material
5. Miscellaneous

FAIRFIELD
1. Cash/document
2. Hardware/building/decorating
3. Jewellery - ring
4. Home Entertainment Equipment
5. Communications equipment

HAWKESBURY
1. Drug
2. Tool
3. Gardening equipment and material
4. Hardware/building/decorating
5. Bicycle

HOLROYD
1. cash/document
2. Jewellery - ring
3. Communications equipment
4. Hardware/building.decorating
5. Miscellaneous

HORNSBY:
1. Cash/document
2. Jewellery - ring
3. Communication equipment
4. Tool
5. Hardware/building/decorating

KOGARAH
1. Cash/document
2. Sport - outdoor equipment
3. Gardening equipment and material
4. Personal item
5. Household item

KU-RING-GAI
1. Drug
2. Jewellery
3. cash/document
4 Jewellery - ring
5. Gardening equipment and material

LANE COVE
1. Jewellery
2. Cash/Document
3. Personal item
4. gardening equipment and material
5. Bicycle

LEICHHARDT
1. Cash/document
2. Jewellery - ring
3. Personal item
4. Credit card
5. Bicycle

LIVERPOOL
1. Cash/document
2. Communications equipment
3. Bicycle
4. Hardware/building/decorating
5. Personal item

MANLY
1. cash/document
2. Bicycle
3. Credit card
4. Personal item
5. Jewellery - ring

MARRICKVILLE
1. Cash/document
2. Personal item
3. Credit card
4. Bicycle
5. Communications equipment

MOSMAN
1. Cash/document
2. Bicycle
3. Credit card
4. Jewellery - ring
5. Jewellery

NORTH SYDNEY
1. Cash/document
2. Credit card
3. Miscellaneous
4. Personal item
5. Communications equipment

PARRAMATTA
1. Cash/document
2. Personal item
3. Miscellaneous
4. Communications equipment
5. Hardware/building/decorating

PENRITH
1. Gardening equipment and material
2. Cash/document
3. Hardware/building.decorating
4. Bicycle
5. Communications equipment

RANDWICK
1. Cash/document
2. Drug
3. Personal item
4. Jewellery
5. Bicycle

RYDE
1. Cash/document
2. Garden equipment and material
3. Jewellery
4. Clothing
5. Communications Equipment

STRATHFIELD
1. Cash/document
2. Jewellery
3. Gardening equipment and material
4, Computer ware
5. Jewellery - ring

SUTHERLAND SHIRE:
1. Cash/document
2. Jewellery - ring
3. Communications equipment
4. Bicycle
5. Jewellery

WAVERLEY
1. Cash/document
2. Bicycle
3. Credit card
4. Personal item
5. Miscellaneous

Saturday, May 31, 2008

FLDS - Polygamy

as some may know the FLDS compound in Eldorado, Texas in the US was raided some weeks ago and 400 children were placed into children services amongst allegations of child abuse and underage marriages and pregnancy. the authorities acting on a tip of from an alleged victim, claimed that there were many under age girls who were pregnant or had had babies to older men they had been forced to marry. i have followed the church stories for some while now and am quiet interested in it. it began to raise international headlines after Warren Jeff's the spiritual leader of the church/sect started to move "selected" individuals from an original compound in Utah to the new Eldorado compound. splitting families and strict new rules were put in place. then Warren jeffs was committed to rape, accomplice in rape, forcing a 14 yr old to marry her adult cousin, and fathering a child by a 12 years old.
when the children were first taken they refused to tell authorities what their names were or identify their parents and many men are still not claiming who their children are out of fear of conviction. and the mothers are also keeping quiet.
some families are now being returned with couples going on record to say they are in monogamous marriages

personally i dont think i have a problem with polygamy hell i might even think its fun (okay this has stemmed probably from my love of the polygamy drama Big Love, excellent show with Bill Paxton!!)
but really each to their own. i dont think that marriage should be opened to more then 2 people (although i think that if its legal in your birth country it should be recognizes in a country u migrate to) but i dont think it should be illegal either. as long as they are committing fraud, abusing children into marriages what does it matter?
many people have secret second families out there and id probably kill Adrian if he had a secret family, but i sometimes think it would be cool to have someone els here, like when adrian is it at work and i need looking after, or when u want to go out somewhere and none of ur friends are available your sister wife would be. (okay maybe i couldn't handle adrian sleeping with his second wife lol but i could handle me sleeping with her LOL)

Sunday, May 4, 2008

and the winner is

i know its late i've been busy
i wish they both could of won!

Wednesday, April 30, 2008

small soloce for flowers in the basement?

it has now been confirmed that Josef Fritzl fathered 6 of his of grandchildren born to his daughter Elizabeth, that poor family. not just Elizabeth's her 6 surviving children but her 5 other siblings and nephews and nieces. and her mother (if she new nothing about it?) just horrible what they went through. 2 of Elizabeth's daughters were raised up stairs with their grandfather/father and were at the same age he has started abusing Elizabeth. would he have gone on to abuse them?? did he abuse his other children and grandchildren??
Elizabeth's and her 3 children came out with not seeing the sunlight in 24 years for Elizabeth and never for her children. they looked malnourished, pale, and their hair was white.
i can help think this is a v c Andrew's novel. "flowers in the basement"

Monday, April 28, 2008

Incest in Austria

can you believe this?
father kidnaps his daughter (Elizabeth) who he began raping when she was 11 and held her captive in their basement for 24 years, fathering 7 children to HIS daughter. all the while he lived upstairs with his wife and mother to Elizabeth. reportedly the 3rd, 4th, and 5th babies were "found" on their doorstep over a number of years and raised by their grandparents (or father and step mother) whilst the two oldest and the youngest child being held also in the basement. while one baby who was a twin (babies 5th and 6th) died a few days after birth. the mother of Elizabeth claims she knew nothing of this. i cant help bit a little suspicious. how can you not know your daughter and 3 grandchildren are locked downstairs? the children would be making a lot of noise not to be heard? and how can you not be suspicious about your grandchildren just showing up on your doorstep? (notes left with the babies were confirmed to be in Elizabeth's handwriting) i also have to ask why did they choose those children to lead above ground lives while the others stayed down stairs?
here is the full story


Austrian 'hid daughter in cellar'

The house where the man and his daughter lived

A 73-year-old Austrian is under arrest on suspicion of hiding his daughter in a cellar for 24 years and fathering seven children with her, police say.

The existence of the woman, believed missing since 1984 and now 42, emerged after a teenager said to be her daughter was taken to hospital.

Both the woman and teenage girl are receiving medical treatment and the other children are in care.

A police investigation in Amstetten, Lower Austria Province, is continuing.

The suspect, named only as Josef F, was arrested on suspicion of incest and keeping his daughter in captivity. He has not responded to the charges against him, police say.

One of the children the man allegedly fathered died in infancy, police believe.

Three children, including the 19-year-old who was taken to hospital, were allegedly kept in the cellar with their mother while the other three reportedly grew up with their grandparents.

DNA tests will be taken to establish whether Josef F was indeed their father.

Placed in care

The alleged crimes came to light after the teenager, named as Kerstin F, was dropped off at the Amstetten hospital last weekend.


KEY FACTS IN CASE
Police secure evidence in the backyard of the suspect's house in Amstetten
Elisabeth reappeared at home after disappearing 24 years ago
Six children she says are hers have been found and placed in care
One of the children, aged 19, is seriously ill in hospital
Elisabeth's father Josef, 73, has been arrested on suspicion of incest and abduction

Cellar case timeline

Finding Kerstin seriously ill, doctors appealed for her mother, who at that time was assumed to be missing, to come forward to provide more details about her medical history.

Josef F allegedly then released the mother and two other children from the cellar, telling his wife Rosemarie that she had chosen to return home, police say.

It was not immediately clear how police were alerted.

The mother, named as Elisabeth F, has been receiving medical and psychological treatment since being discovered.

She appeared "greatly disturbed" psychologically during questioning and agreed to talk only after authorities assured her that she would no longer have to have contact with her father, and that her children would be taken care of, police added.

The six children are three boys and three girls aged between five and 20.

Police spokesman Franz Polzer told reporters they were now all in "psychological care in a secure institution in a clinic here in this area".

"They are being cared for individually - those between 12 and 16 years of age who grew up with their grandparents, and two boys who, when they came out yesterday with their mother, saw the daylight for the first time in their lives," he said.

Police said three of the children were registered with authorities and lived with the grandparents.

According to police, Josef F and wife Rosemarie had told authorities the three had been abandoned at birth outside their home - in 1993, 1994 and 1997 - each time, the couple claimed, with a note from Elisabeth saying she could not care for the babies herself.

'Dead baby burnt'

The police issued a statement giving details of the alleged abuses Elisabeth recounted to them.

BBC map

She said she had been sexually abused by her father since the age of 11.

Josef allegedly lured her into the cellar of their house in Amstetten on 28 August 1984, drugging and handcuffing her before locking her up.

It was assumed she had disappeared voluntarily when her parents received a letter from her asking them not to search for her.

"Abused continuously during the 24-year-long imprisonment", Elisabeth bore six children while a seventh, one of a set of twins, died soon after birth.

The dead baby was allegedly taken out of the cellar and burnt by Josef.

Elisabeth said Josef had provided her and three of her children, who were locked up along with her, with clothing and food.

His wife Rosemarie had allegedly not been aware of what was going on.

The discovery of another Austrian woman, who was held captive in a cellar by an abductor for more than eight years, gripped the country in 2006.

Natascha Kampusch finally escaped from her kidnapper, 44-year-old Wolfgang Priklopil, who killed himself shortly afterwards.

Ms Kampusch was abducted at the age of 10 in 1998 and held in a small, windowless cellar beneath Priklopil's garage in the commuter town of Strasshof, near Vienna.


Austrian detectives study cellar

The house where the man and his daughter lived

Police in Amstetten, Austria, have described the cellar where a woman was allegedly held captive and sexually abused for 24 years by her father.

A series of underground rooms equipped for sleeping and cooking, and with sanitary facilities, lay behind a concealed door, police said.

The father, 73, allegedly had seven children with his daughter, now aged 42, and is under arrest.

Authorities are caring for the daughter and six surviving children.

The small town of Amstetten, about 130km (80 miles) west of Vienna, with its well-kept gardens is in shock, the BBC's Bethany Bell reports.

The case, she notes, is reminiscent of that of Natasha Kampusch, the Austrian teenager held captive in a cellar in a house in a Vienna suburb for eight years, who ran to freedom in 2006.

While police are not connecting the two cases, many Austrians are asking how such matters went undiscovered, our correspondent says.

Door code

Speaking on Sunday evening, Austrian police confirmed they had found the cellar where the daughter, named only as Elisabeth F, was allegedly held along with three of her children.


KEY FACTS IN CASE
Local people watch police at work at the back of the suspect's house in Amstetten
Elisabeth reappeared at home after disappearing 24 years ago
Six children she says are hers have been found and placed in care
One of the children, aged 19, is seriously ill in hospital
Elisabeth's father Josef, 73, has been arrested on suspicion of incest and abduction

Cellar case timeline

Three other children were adopted or fostered by the suspect, named as Josef F, while a seventh allegedly died soon after birth.

Police found the cellar after Josef gave them a code to unlock the hidden door, said Franz Polzer, head of the Lower Austrian Bureau of Criminal Affairs.

"There is not only one, but a number of rooms: one room to sleep in, one to cook, and there are also sanitation facilities," he said.

The floor is uneven and the hallway "very narrow" while the door is "very small", and one has to bend one's head to get through, he added.

"Everything is very, very narrow and the victim herself, the mother of these six or seven children, told us that this was being continually enlarged over the years," Mr Polzer said.

The area also contained sanitary facilities and "small hot plates" for cooking.

DNA tests

Elisabeth is receiving medical and psychological treatment and her children are in care, police said.

BBC map

Her eldest daughter, Kerstin, is in hospital with a serious illness.

The 19-year-old's admission to hospital a week ago, after allegedly being hidden in the cellar with her mother and two siblings, sparked new interest in the whereabouts of Elisabeth.

When she disappeared on 28 August 1984, her parents had received a letter in her handwriting asking them not to search for her, and it was assumed she had run away from home.

However, according to Elisabeth's testimony to police, that day Josef had in fact lured her into the cellar, drugging and handcuffing her before locking her up.

Allegedly, he had already been sexually abusing her from the age of 11.

After Kerstin fell ill, doctors appealed for her mother to come forward to provide details about her medical history.

Josef then released both Elisabeth and the remaining two children from the cellar, telling his wife Rosemarie that she had chosen to return home, police say.

Police arrested him shortly afterwards and took the children into care, along with the three who had been adopted or fostered.

Rosemarie appears to have been unaware of the suspected crimes of her husband.

DNA tests are to be taken to establish whether Josef F was the father of the six surviving children.


Timeline: Austrian cellar case

A timeline of events in the case of a woman in Amstetten, Austria, allegedly held and sexually abused by her father for 24 years in his cellar, during which time she is believed to have given birth to seven of his children.

The events included are based on an Austrian police statement issued after the arrest of the 73-year-old father.

28 AUGUST 1984

The suspected abductor, Josef F, allegedly lures his daughter Elisabeth into the cellar of their house, drugging and handcuffing her before locking her up.

DATE UNKNOWN

Josef and his wife Rosemarie receive a letter in Elisabeth's handwriting saying they should not try to look for her. Rosemarie is unaware of the truth, Elisabeth later tells police.

1988-89 (APPROXIMATELY)

Kerstin, the first of seven reported children, is secretly born (exact date unknown) and raised in the cellar. She is followed shortly by a brother.

1993

A baby is discovered outside the family home along with a letter from Elisabeth saying she cannot care for it. It is taken in by Josef and his wife. A second infant appears in 1994. Both are either fostered or adopted, and are raised by their grandparents.

1996

Twins are born to Elisabeth but one dies shortly after birth and is allegedly taken away and burnt by Josef. The following year, a third infant appears at the house, and is taken in like the previous two, to be raised by grandparents.

2003

A letter arrives from Elisabeth to say she had another baby in December 2002. This child is believed to have been brought up in the cellar along with Kerstin and her brother.

SATURDAY 19 APRIL 2008

Police issue an appeal to missing person Elisabeth F to contact them about her daughter Kerstin, who has been admitted to hospital in Amstetten with a serious illness.

19-27 APRIL 2008

At some point during the week, according to the police statement, Josef releases Elisabeth and the two other children in the cellar, telling his wife Rosemarie she has chosen to return home.

SATURDAY 26 APRIL 2008

Police discover Elisabeth and her children at the house.

SUNDAY 27 APRIL 2008

Police announce the arrest of Josef on suspicion of incest and abduction. All the children are placed in care and Elisabeth is given medical and psychological treatment. Kerstin remains in hospital "fighting for her life".

Sunday, April 27, 2008

THE funniest moment is cricket history??

i have to admit the crying is sooooo funny, did barhji slap See? i dont know but why would he cry like that after just wining?

Monday, April 21, 2008

New IVF research

found this article online about IVF, man i would like to sign up for the test trails yes i am desperate!

IVF pregnancy rates could double and the incidence of serious complications, such as miscarriage and pre-eclampsia, could be halved after a technological breakthrough in fertility research.

Scientists at the University of Adelaide have created a new type of culture which they say will help embryos better survive their five days out of the womb, and help the foetus and placenta develop more normally.

The head of the research team, Claire Roberts, said yesterday the culture, used successfully to grow mice embryos, was "absolutely fantastic" and could change the face of fertility treatments.

"Until now, the culture most commonly used has not been particularly conducive to the survival of embryos, which is one of the main reasons we don't have a very high success rate in IVF," she said.

Women in their 20s have about a 40 per cent chance of falling pregnant through IVF with that dropping to about 15 per cent for women in their late 30s.

But the new culture contains three molecules which exist in the birth tract fluids of all mammals, making it easier for embryos to grow and implant successfully in the uterus.

"It has long been thought that the culture used in IVF alters the way the embryo develops and affects the interaction between the embryo and the mother, which compromises the development of the placenta," Associate Professor Roberts said.

Poor placental growth results in miscarriage, intrauterine growth restriction, haemorrhage and premature births. Women who have undergone IVF are three times more at risk of these complications than women who have conceived naturally.

Human trials are expected to begin within two years and if successful, could help the 15 per cent of couples who are infertile or suffer from recurrent miscarriages.

The new culture could also help researchers achieve the "holy grail" of IVF - a single embryo transfer, which reduces the incidence of multiple pregnancies and maximises the chance of a successful pregnancy.

A fertility expert with IVF Australia, Michael Chapman, said it was still difficult to artificially mimic the human body when creating embryo cultures.

"Mice are not men - or women, so we have to approach this with a fair degree of caution, but if it is proven safe in humans this is a great step forward," Professor Chapman said.

Sunday, April 13, 2008

60 Mins - Forbidden love

i cant believe that i didnt post on this during the week it was on my mind all week. 
a few weeks ago on CI (foxtel channel) i watched a doco on genetic sexual attraction (GSA) where blood relatives who have not grown up together, meet later in life and fall in love. it was a UK based doco so they discussed 3 cases from the UK and Spain. 
one a man who fell in love with his half sister, which resulted in them having an affair, and lead to prosecution.
2nd a women who fell in love with her son she had given up for adoption as a baby, her desire for closeness freaked him out and they dont really have contact now
and 3 a spanish couple full brother and sister who were abandon by their parents and met when they were in their 20s fell in love and now love as husband and wife and have 2 children, spain has actually changed the law so they are allowed to live together as man and wife in all sense of the word.

then on sunday last week 60 minutes shocks australia with John and Jenny Deaves, a father and daughter who had little contact untill jenny was 30 and fell in love. they now live as husband and wife with jenny's 2 children from her previous marriage and their own 11 month old baby. read the story here 
this story exploded around australia all week people were talking about and everyone had an opinion, more bits of the story came through the media, and people were asking why? how?
the couple have responded to the media backlash over t he story here is what they have to say
for me it totally grosses me out that a father and daughter are having  this relationship. i can understand how a brother and sister one can form. but a parent/child one is different the parent was there at conception and would of had ideas of this child growing up. its very strange, i could not get my head around sleeping with your daughter/son. 
i also think that they should not have had a child, no matter what. and that if they want to live like this, fine who am i to judge but why go on 60 minutes and open yourself up to the backlash they have received they must of known that it was going to happen, and that their children will have to go to school and live with THEIR decisions now amongst their school friends!

weirdly enough though this whole concept (GSA) i was exposed to when i was 13, the first novel i ever read Dawn by VC Andrews, tells the story of  a girl who is reunited with her birth family only to discover her boyfriend that she is dating is her brother. the brother cant except this and obsesses about her for the rest of his life, but she ends up marring a man she grew up thinking was her brother. 
i enjoyed the story (not the incest aspects!) and as i do chose to read more books from VC Andrews/ Virginia Andrews. and the first book after dawn i choose is Flowers in the Attic. her most popular book she wrote. it tells the story of a wife who suddenly losses her husband, she is left broke with her 4 children, so she goes home to her parents to reunite with them, her father will leave her millions if she has no children to the man she chose to marry against his wishes. so she hides the children for 4 yrs in the attic of the mansion waiting for her father to die. whist in the attic the two elder children fall in love and later we learn the reason why the rich father disapproved of his daughters marriage was because she married her brother.
strangely enough this theme features in most of VC Andrews books and flowers in  the attic was suppose to based on a true story

a question we have to ask though in the days of sperm and egg donation is this going to happen more and more? will it eventually become an accepted part of society?

Thoughts about world evil

last week adrian and i watched these documentaries on Hitler and Auschwitz-Birkenau. these docos always interest me, i have a strange fascination with them, ill watch them and be totally disgusted and horrified every-time i watch them, the whole Holocaust and all the atrocities committed during world war 2 is the worst thing that ever happened in the history of the human race, and the people responsible one of true evils on earth.
whilst i was watching i also went on wikipedia and did some further reading. its just amazing that it just ever happened, amazing that people let it happen. so i was moved to search a poem that haunts me when i read it.
so i thought ill post it here.

"In Germany, they came first for the Communists, And I didn’t speak up because I wasn’t a Communist;
And then they came for the trade unionists, And I didn’t speak up because I wasn’t a trade unionist;
And then they came for the Jews, And I didn’t speak up because I wasn’t a Jew;
And then . . . they came for me . . . And by that time there was no one left to speak up."
Pastor Martin Niemöller

there is actually many verations of the poem so i posted one and for the others click here


this whole fascination and i use the word for a lack of a better one i cant find right now i guess started when i read a little book for english when i was 13-14 in year 8 (1995) it broke my heart! and certainly changed by perceptions on evil
it was called Friedrich by Hans Peter Richter (1968)